Broke Up and Never Talked Again
Anyone pause up and never talk again?
Has anyone been in a situation where you breakdown and just never talk again? Nosotros broke up 6 months ago and haven't talked since the mean solar day it happened. When I tell people that they think it'southward really foreign. I'm starting to remember and so as well.
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level ane
This is how it'south going for me right now.
She said she wanted to be friends and wants me in her life even after we broke up.
Simply not once has she reached out to me. Guess 9 years didn't mean much to her.
level two
Kinda similar experience, Living together for 10 years, even his mom was living with us for nigh 4 years. Bankrupt upward in June 18, some texts until December, then vanished into sparse air. Of course deleted me from every social and probably blocked my number. Some days are easier than others but it still hurts knowing how little I meant to this person.
Pat on all ya heads
level 2
Meh. What'due south ix years... FUCK Yous LESLEY!
level ii
Yeah I tin totally chronicle. I was the 1 who left, but I'm all the same hung up on him 6 months after. I did reach out right after the breakup, but was ignored. That really hurt because I thought he would want to fight for us, but he didn't AT ALL.
level 1
Yea information technology'south been two months haven't talked since the 24-hour interval we broke up
level 2
Who was the dumper? In my state of affairs I broke upward with him and then I reached out a few weeks later simply was ignored. Haven't actually talked since the day of the break up.
level 1
Same for me. I've never heard of a situation like the one I'm in where two people never spoke once again later on the breakdown. Never heard of it anywhere outside of this subreddit at least.
He dumped me and I won't lie, I think the reason nosotros haven't spoken in 5 months is considering he knows he hurt me very badly (not the first fourth dimension breaking up with me). I think it was "on me" in a way to break the silence. But I've been so deep in this forum that now I don't see myself doing so. I don't regret it considering any closure or confirmation of him being washed at this point would hurt even more. But the sudden ending is traumatic and makes me wonder sometimes if it acquired me unnecessary suffering.
level ii
In my situation nosotros broke upward and I reached out i or twice inside a month of the breakdown, just I never heard back. It really stung and I have too much pride to keep reaching out. Just every time I hear most guys running dorsum to their ex it makes me feel pretty shit.
level 1
My last bf and I broke up twice lol. The first fourth dimension we talked every twenty-four hours eventually leading to dating again. The 2nd fourth dimension we cutting contact and and then several months later I institute out he got married 🙃🙃🙃 I was aroused at first but then I sent him my well wishes. No response of class.
level ii
That'southward really rough. I'thousand sorry that happened to you. People are really shitty sometimes, and information technology hurts and then desperately when it'due south the person you lot loved and thought loved you.
level 1
Sometimes information technology just takes time. I was once told about the half time rule, where you're basically supposed to requite eachother space for a minimum of half the time y'all were together. Information technology takes a lot of time to process all of the emotions you've felt during the fourth dimension yous were together, and if things weren't besides serious then it could've just been a polite gesture to offer friendship.
level 2
I just wanted someone to fight for me and make me feel wanted, but that never happened. Information technology really stings that the person I spent and then much time with just let go so easily while I'thousand over here still thinking nearly information technology 6 months after
level 2
OMG! If its half the time then I have five years of this pain?!?!
level 2
Wasn't that from Sex and the City? Bluntly, that is faar likewise long; for me that'd be four years, and I'd just give up now if I thought I had to wait that amount of time to feel human over again.
level 2
Interesting! So half means I should be talking with my ex in near 2.5 years. In 2.5 years I don't want anything to do with him, allow alone effort to be get in bear upon again. That loser will never apologize, hence a friendship is off the table. I accept no desire to update him near my life ever. I disappeared off the face of the Earth and he will never see me or observe me. I want him to forget that I ever existed!!!! I don't even want to be in his thoughts or part of his memories. He does not deserve that!!!! He does not deserve to have thoughts and memories nigh me. The solar day he dies I will be at peace.
level 1
Yeah because I knew I deserved amend than what he was. A horrible manipulative cheater. That'due south the simply thing that kept me potent when getting over him and making me hate him and not want to talk to him due to how he hurt me.
level 2
It makes it easier to move on when you lot actually detest them in my experience. Our breakup wasn't super emotional and there was no cheating. I'm just left here wondering why the hell information technology ended then abruptly and we never talked again.
level 1
It's been about four months since my breakup. My ex blocked me on every single social media platform and phone. They are already dating someone else. So information technology'southward easy for me to say that we most likely will never talk once more and I'll never get closure from her. I've accepted the fact that she volition never unblock me. It sucks how you can know a person for so long but then they cease up existence a stranger.
level 2
I understand the feeling. It sucks and yous deserve much better!
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